Unleash The Mind Session 13
1. Recently, I was having some misunderstanding with my higher boss where he emphasise that my training participants need to passed the module 1 assessment after training before they are allowed to attend module 2 training. I told him not necessary because module 1 and 2 and actually supposed to be 1 module. I broke it up into 2 modules to allow the participants to digest and not overload or overwhelm the participants especially the new joiners. He said drivers must have license before he/she is allowed to drive. After some deep digestion to explain to him that the current employees are already doing their work, hence, it is not necessary for them to pass in order to attend module 2. Only the new joiners should learn the basic practical before they can attend my module 1 in their second month. My explanation / argument to him was taking my wife as her sister as examples. They were able to drive before 18 years old and no license. In addition, the village kids without helmet and license were riding motorcycle all over the kampung. They still achieve their goal of going to their destination. Does it mean without license they will get into accident ? Yes they will but even those who already have license doesn’t mean they will not get into accident. They will as well.
2. This gives me another insight that getting into university does not guarantee a person will be happy, successful and wealthy. They are many wealthy people did not go to university. It is our mindset, learning abilities and our own reflections to learn and grow towards what we need to learn / upgrade our living skill that will bring success and happiness. Hence, we have to start query the conventional practice and culture / habit in our daily life. Is it necessary ? Is it the only way ? Is the an effective and efficiency way to achieve our goal or make a good living our in life ?
3. It also feels good that the lesson saying able to switch our thinking to positive to whatever happened in our life is able to truly live life. I use to have this concept in my life because when we think the good and positive, we will be happier and life will not be so hard and we spiral up. The vice versa is also true and spiral down. Why normally a person always focus on the negatives ? It is because we were program from young in school that making mistake we will get punished. This build fears in us and hence, when see any negative things not inline with what we want or think we can get upset easily. We forgot there are lessons to be learnt in every situation to grow and gratitude for the learnings. Just keep a clear don’t know mind and feel and observe the other person’s needs at that moment and the overall needs of the situation to move forward is important. Not hold on to the negatives and get into arguments and miserable.
Ching Meng Hapchang
【是的，不落入两边，转念到最理想的地方，活得快乐，这才是会用心，这才是般若智慧。】
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